Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Whatever happened to communication?



I started out reading this strip almost jumping up and down shouting "yes! yes! totally!" It's made me realize how I've been viewing the activity of blogging currently. And then forced me to push past this, since blogging is more than social networking (not many read this and that's fine with me) than a way to articulate and archive my thoughts, despite the scanty number of posts.

I think I'm going to force myself to stop there even though there's so much about life and thoughts to ramble on about. Perhaps this will give me the nudge I need to post short and sweet in some weird way.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Yay I've got a MLS!

Just a quick note to announce that I have indeed completely and utterly finished my Master's in Library Science degree. Last class was over at 12:15 pm today, when I'd given my presentation and handed in my last paper.

Yay!

And my car is hopefully gonna be fixed by noon Friday so that means I get to lug up a bunch of stuff to Highland Park, help Colin seal the windows against the cold, and attend Tom's party Saturday. Oh, and rent Julie and Julia :) Colin's company party is Thursday night then I'll head down early Friday to finish packing, greet arriving family members, wait for Colin to show up, and then graduation is Saturday morning. And no, I'm not driving to Charlevoix directly after that but taking the rest of my stuff to fully move in the apartment in HP. *Then* I'll be in Charlevoix for Christmas.

So all in all, both cheerful and kind of blank. Stay tuned for what happens in the next episode ...

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

it's not a rose ... SLA needs a new name

Tomorrow, the vote for whether to change the name of Special Library Association to Association for Strategic Knowledge Professionals ends. And I have yet to decide whether to vote yes or no. In attempts to find out and hope that I could find someone whose words would make me jump up and down shouting "That's it! That's what I mean! Exactly!" I am perhaps even further from a decision. Many times I did indeed find myself nodding in agreement but it was only sections of both pro and con blogposts which I've posted below to hopefully consolidate my thoughts.

Why do I even care? Someone mentioned that it's not going to change what they do and what the organization means to them, and I agree with that. But that's not really the point of a name change - it's about image, both the self and the projected. I may be a quite new member (renewing for my second year in January) but I went to the conference this summer and I plan on only increasing my involvement and passion in the organization.

I never really liked the name SLA - I don't like being egotistic and saying "well those are the regular librarians - I'm studying to be a *special* librarian" - but I understood what it meant. It made sense when I knew the history of the association, how it grew out of a combination of many smaller library organizations that didn't quite fit in with the general ALA.

But, come on - ASKPro? First, I thought it was the name of a program or some online reference librarian thing. Then I thought about how it actually sounds to me, a hearing impaired person who frequently, well, mishears things.

I'm all for trying to change and more accurately reflect the organization's membership, but I agree with naysayers so much on this choice. I don't mind that it doesn't say "library" but it will mean it's less likely to be grouped together with the other library organizations. Even if my job title neglects to have the word "librarian" in it, I'm still going to consider myself a librarian, just like many other SLA members.

The big question to me: if I was looking at professional organizations to join, would I have joined "ASKPro?" I probably would have been even more confused what the name meant than with SLA. Honestly, I don't think I would have thought it was a relevant organization. But others have probably been dissuaded from joining SLA because they thought "oh I'm not a special librarian" when in fact they may very well be just that but aren't aware of it because the term is so vague.

So why am I spending the time reading other thoughts and mulling over the issue in the middle of one of the craziest weeks which include the last bit of grad school work, getting my car fixed, first snow, dealing with family drama, and lots of planning (holidays and moving - don't get me started on job searching and applying)? Because the vote deadline is less than 24 hours away. I think I'll sleep on it, but I'm leaning towards "no." Meanwhile, time to get cracking on my very last SLIS project due Thursday.

Quotes:

"As was pointed out in the email announcing the proposed name, John Cotton Dana (founder of SLA, as if you didn’t know!) said in the first place that “The name Special Libraries was chosen with some hesitation, or rather in default of a better…”. The name doesn’t really mean much to me, and certainly means far less to non-librarians."

http://woodsiegirl.wordpress.com/2009/10/19/am-i-a-strategic-knowledge-professional/

"What I keep coming back to though is this: simply, it is time for a change. ... Maybe “Association for Strategic Knowledge Professionals” will require as much explanation to non-members and non-information professionals as SLA did, but at least they won’t have to work their way past a set of inaccurate assumptions to begin with. ASKP is a blank slate."

"If the new name stops people from thinking “well I can’t join that association, it’s only for special librarians” – isn’t that a good thing?"
http://woodsiegirl.wordpress.com/2009/12/07/sla-vote-yea-or-nay/

"As others have suggested, if the SLA has to explain to its own *members* what the term means, there is a problem.

I think the SLA executive have to go back to the drawing board on this one."

http://www.coolweblog.com/bilodeau/archives/005164.html

"I have queried several non-librarian friends, including attorneys at my firm. So far, I have not had one positive response. Replies have included:

* “What does that even mean?”
* “Sounds pompous as hell.”
* “What are you, the CIA?”

The most positive response I have received was simply that it was too vague and the individual had no idea what it meant or who the association would include.

I grant that everyone I have queried thus far has preferred the proposed name to “Special Libraries Association”. But what does that really mean? They find the proposed name pretentious, unspecific, and challenging to say, but it’s better than what we have so we should go for it? No. It means what so many of us have been saying for years. “Special Libraries Association” is confusing and unclear and should be changed. That is all."

"I do not support the proposed name, but I think “Special Libraries Association” is no longer sufficient. I worry that we will miss this opportunity because so many of those that strongly back a name change can not support the proposed name. "

http://midwesterngirl.com/2009/10/23/my-lengthy-thoughts-on-the-sla-proposed-name-change/

Friday, December 4, 2009

Present grumblings, past fun, and future plans

The inner corner of my right eye itches and burns but I can't find anything causing this. But I keep trying to ease this really annoying problem which in turn makes my eye all watery. Also, I have lots of congestion running down my throat which made my pill stick in my throat and I hate it when that happens. I don't think the whole thing lodges in there but it takes its sweet time making its way down and leaves residue. It feels uncomfortable and makes me cringe when it burns sometimes like when I burp or when I'm trying to flush it with water, tea, and chicken noodle soup.

I also keep trying to work on my last two projects (each include paper and presentation due next week) which by K standards are very manageable but things just keep popping up that need to be dealt with. Like my car. It's been a month since it broke down but it is very probable that someone will come tow it back to their shop and fix it by next weekend. So Colin's driving down for the weekend and I really hope to make it to Tom Beck's party next Saturday.

So yeah, graduation is the 19th and I'll be moved out on the 20th. The trips made by both me and Colin will be how stuff gets moved, and my parents are taking big items back that we won't need, like my twin bed and desk table. Then there's the matter of finding a job. I've done searching but I think other than sending a resume to the most interesting ones I've found so far, I'm not going to focus so much on it until I've moved, at least.

Plans for post-holidays so far include possibly going to ALA's midwinter conference in Boston mid-January, having Becca visit in February for a couple days (yay!), going on a cruise with family early March, going to Becca's wedding late March and Ashley's in June. Also, Laura and Emily plan on study abroad in Europe next fall and Colin just might have to go back to India for a period. Regardless of all that, I'm gonna be bored on the normal days unless I can find at least some temp/part-time/unpaid/whatever library-related thing I want to do.

Thanksgiving in Charlevoix was nice. A bit different without my mom's parents, but still nice. I got really full and was wearing pants that I'd made the mistake of putting through the dryer so I had to excuse myself to go change into pajama pants. The next day, while Laura and I are trying on clothes in JC Penny, she said Mom and she had been wondering if I was pregnant. Um, no. Now, I don't know where they got the idea or if the pants were at all a "clue" but, seriously? Colin made me laugh when after I told him this he said that he was first thinking they were worried but then remembered who my mom and sister are and realized they were probably hoping. All in all, weird.

It was really good to spend time with William though. Hadn't seen him since the funeral in March; it's the first time I hadn't gone home during the summer. We had a great time watching Ice Age 3 - even my dad watched it! There were games of Up the River (Colin finally properly learned how to play) and Scrabble, a walk down the road, playing with the puppies, and just general good family time. Also got to meet Laura's boyfriend Nathan (yet another correlation between Emily and Laura - both their boyfriends are named Nathan) and Weston's (a cousin of mine) friend P.J. who's living with him at Brooks Hill and has a job at Applebee's.

On the drive up and down Michigan we stopped both times to visit Emily who had to stay for an exam the next week and couldn't make it to Duluth for Thanksgiving. I also had the ingenious idea of reading Sherlock Holmes stories to Colin while he drove. That's how drives usually work out - since I can't have a conversation with him while I'm driving without apparently making him nervous he does the driving while I do the entertaining such as reading or crossword puzzles. Oh and trying to navigate (we always end up taking detours but neither of us mind too much).

I suppose you might be wondering why I used the time to write an entry instead of a paper - mostly, it's because I felt like I needed to get a bunch of the thoughts swirling in my head not paper-related out of the way. I had to write a packing list with what goes on the first, second, or third trips just to stop gazing around the room wondering. I think I"ll aim for a chunk of paper writing and then a walk in the sunshine, but it depends on when and if they're towing the car today. Meanwhile, send me some academic focusing power, if you've got any to spare.

Monday, November 23, 2009

It's all part of a big circle

Random thought: I was taking a pill from the bottle when I remembered dreaming about doing that very thing a few nights ago, but in the dream there were a lot less pills in the bottle. So I wondered: "Was I dreaming of the past or the future if it's a cyclical action?"

After posting that last entry, I went over to LJ, which I hardly ever do since I have linked to my blogger account in a way that whatever I post in blogger will show up in LJ. I was curious to see just how much posting the LJ friends still did and I found that Joanne was easily the most frequent blogger. I don't miss much though, since I have her blog as a subscription in Google Reader along with other blogs that don't consistently mark their entries as private (I hope that doesn't creep you out, Joanne).

Then I learned a couple of surprising bits of information, namely that the feeling that I've had an LJ account forever is proved by the date of my first entry: January 12, 2004. That's a really long time ago, people. Since then, I might not have been the most consistent blogger, but I still managed to write 264 journal entries - this will be my 265th.

I also noticed that I'd updated my location to Bloomington, but my bio is still original, as evidenced by this section: "Yes, I like to hike. I also like many other things but I can't think of them right now ... oh there's something about being a K College sophomore history major somewhere in there ..." I clicked on the "edit" button, then realized I really didn't care what it said and who would read it anyway?

Watching the NASA Atlantis shuttle launch about two weeks ago was pretty neat. I saw a news article via google news about it last night and decided to check out the twitter activity. NASA allowed 101 twitterers to have special access near the base, to interview and be interviewed, and they even got a wave from the astronauts as they drove past in the van on the way to the shuttle. I started getting ready for the launch soon after I got up around 10, intending to make sure I had a good video feed that'd work for linux and to have the right websites to bounce back and forth on, but then it was addicting watching the pre-launch and before I knew it, four hours flew by and the shuttle was in space. Whoops. I guess there are worse addictions ... (While it was nice of Chris to not mind changing the channel downstairs to NASA minutes before the launch, it was annoying that he interrupted my moment of awe by shouting "I didn't know it was going to launch NOW! You said pre-launch! I thought you meant like an hour more!")

Two weekends ago was the house party. I wasn't really looking forward to it but I was very relieved that Colin managed to be down here that weekend otherwise I probably would've caved into the temptation just to hole back up in my room and watch movies instead. I'm not anti-social; spending hours in a dimly lit rooms reeking of alcohol and beer and filled with mostly people I don't know just doesn't appeal to me. But it turned out to be fun, especially when we burned all the crappy deck chairs and table in the fire pit, even with the really rude guy who kept saying and doing things that made me just downright despise him. I *will* take offense when you purposely knock the cup of water out of my hand that I'd gotten for someone I care about who had just been throwing up. That's all I'm saying on that subject.

So since my car is still out of commission (yes, at least partly my fault there but I can only pester someone so much if they're doing me a favor), I had to determine how I was going to get to Charlevoix for Thanksgiving. I hadn't been to my hometown or seen my brother since the funeral in March - this year was the first time I had not made it home during the summer. As long as I made it to Chicago, Colin and I would drive the rest of the way in his car.

I hadn't missed any classes this semester except the first one (was still en route from India) so I was perfectly okay with missing one class (tomorrow) especially since I honestly find that course boring. Also, the last couple of weeks I've been on-and-off sick with viruses so even when I wished for nothing more but to stay in bed, I always dragged myself to class after deeming myself not that sick after all. It's unusual for me to do that, believe it or not. Last Wednesday night I registered a fever on the thermometer but mostly just felt really tired the next morning and did just fine. I think being stuck at the house except for classes was huge motivator.

So I looked up flights and found that if Chris was willing to drive me to the Memorial Union on campus, I could get shuttle bus and roundtrip flights for just about 200. So I did. Now I find myself sitting on Colin's couch, waiting to pick him up from work and watch Heroes during a spaghetti dinner. When we were out for lunch, we both noticed we felt like I had to leave to head south soon, which has always been the case. Ok, so technically I could have left this afternoon, gone to class, and then driven back before leaving for a night in Kalamazoo on Wednesday but it sure wasn't worth it.

This entry's been slowly written ever since I posted the last one. I just need to realize short entries are not only just fine but in fact preferred ...

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

The short version of the story of the last 2.5 months

Lately, I've been feeling a strange disconnect between what I do and think and what the reality is. Every time I've felt the urge to blog about something, I start thinking about all the other things I haven't and/or should write about. Not that there's any real rules to blogging. I spend a lot of time on my computer and then forcing myself to avoid it as long as possible, which is not very long usually since almost everything in my life is to some extent online now: friends, Colin, school, entertainment, boring things like paying bills. It's kind of scary, actually. Oh, and yes - I have finally given in and joined Twitter, as part of this crazy idea I got last week to start using Remember the Milk. You can find me as "deafelephant" although (at least for now) you'll have to subscribe to me (or whatever the action's called) to see my tweets because I'm keeping things private.

-- A couple technological "side" notes --
1) Remember the Milk is actually kind of hard to describe; calling it an online to do list doesn't do it justice. You can have it send you reminders daily and/or at "deadlines" via SMS, email, or IM what you should be doing (I have it set to send a reminder 15 mins before anything with a deadline so I know when a show will be on TV). You can send items too - I find this very useful. You make multiples lists, such as by project or place to do them. And these are just the basics. Other than keeping track of school projects, books and movies to read and see, creative ideas, and everything else I can think of that I have to do or keep track of, my Big Idea is to set up an efficient food system, including what I have, links to recipes, and what I need to buy. Since I intend to avoid real meal planning and still have the flexibility to decide what I really feel like eating, this is going to be even more challenging. However, I think this will actually pay off in the end; I hate being hungry and wracking my brain trying to think what food I have all the way down in the kitchen. Go ahead and call me a cataloguing geek. Overall, I've decided to use RTM because I don't want to always carry my notebook (especially into a store), I need a place to also store links with notes I make, this will be incentive to carry my phone and keep it charged, and like I said, everything I do is pretty much online that paper to-do lists and schedules don't make much sense, no matter how much they've saved me in the past.

2) I've also moved a bit more into cloud computing, even as the general tech world is increasingly ignoring it. This is not because I have a netbook or that I use linux (although the characteristics of someone with these might carry over). I just need an easier way to backup stuff and to get at it, especially since I've found myself both copying a document to my thumbdrive *and* emailing it to myself so I can print it off at school. One acronym librarians like is LOCKSS (lots of copies keeps stuff safe). Thus, I've started using pote.com as an insanely simple online word processor (two drawbacks: no footnotes and no straightforward downloading and saving as word). I've got about a gazillion documents in Google Docs, but have been moving away from it more and more because I don't like the interface. Heck, I hate using most word processors, online or offline, especially the Windows Vista MS Word. My problem is probably that I'm just too picky.

2b) I have an external hard drive (quite old in hard drive time) but I rarely use it for backups. I make a valiant effort to backup periodically which usually is every 3 to 6 months but this is not enough for safe keeping. I'm always nervous about losing the stuff I'm currently working on. After countless Blue Screens of Death and complete failure then total wipe or even complete physical replacement of the hard drive in my ThinkPad, I can't think why I despise Windows and am paranoid of having only one copy of something accessible. In any case, I've tried online storage options, never liked any of them, and since I'm trying to keep from giving *everything* to Google, I've kept looking. Solution: dropbox.com - I love it so far. There is no need to manually check to make sure that the most current versions of files are there or insert new ones; it automatically syncs when you connect to the internet. You can also access and edit things from any computer with internet access. It Just Works.
-- end side notes --

I also feel like not much actually happens in my day-to-day life but when I look back over recent weeks I realize it'd take hours just to tell you what's happened. And I don't mean "well, this day I took a shower and didn't used conditioner and this day I did use conditioner" but the more (hopefully) interesting tidbits, like how my car broke down on my way back to B-town the Monday night before last and the future of my car is looking quite bleak. I made it back safely, even if it was after midnight and my housemate came and picked me up in Martinsville, with only 25 miles further to go. This weekend Colin was a big help when we towed my car back to the house. If you ever need to do non-local car-towing, definitely check out U-Haul. From extensive online research, I knew it was going to be just over 100 dollars for self-towing as opposed to easily 250 to 300 with a towing company.

Since then, I've been more housebound than ever, unable to hop in my car and drive to the coffee shop or the grocery store. I had been making a point to try to get out every day, which doesn't always happen but it was a good thing for me to do. I'm trying to limit how much I depend on my housemates for rides and fortunately I only have the two class periods per week, although I did need to get prescriptions filled last Wednesday.

As for groceries, I've been doing perfectly fine without having to go to the store, apart from picking up milk when getting prescriptions and when Colin and I went shopping for the hors d'ouevres smorgasbord impromptu party. I tend to get more than I immediately need of any food I buy, usually sticking to a rule of "need one, get two." I'm really quite bad at making decisions sometimes; I'm the girl you see standing forever in front of a section because she can't figure out if she should get the cheapest, the bulk, or the quality (bulk isn't always the cheapest in pennies per ounce and sometimes I only want a little so it would actually be overall price that I'm looking at). So if I'm getting one of something, I save myself from twice the grief by getting two. Anyway, I've got quite a strange stockpile and although I've run out of eggs (some things I don't buy two of: eggs and milk), I'm using this as a good kick in the pants to finally use some of this stuff up, especially things I remember migrating from my apartment in May.

Currently, it's sunny and gorgeous out but I've got this sniffly sickness being nursed by a pot of cooling tea and a box of kleenex. It's one of those times when I feel driven to be uber-productive while I'm sick and I'm trying to rein it in so I don't keep wearing myself out. I might have to take a short slow walk outside just for sanity's sake though. But as for the dishwasher, maybe someone else will unload it after I started it and did the overflow of dishes by hand last night but I'm not overly optimistic nor does it bother me too much. Not even finding really old leftovers in tupperware with thriving colonies in the fridge bothers me much. Now, someone stealing and drinking my big bottle of pepsi for what is very clearly my part of the pantry, that annoys me, but I keep in mind it had been open for a couple days before it went missing so they got flat warm pepsi.

Okay, that's enough talking for now. Guess I'll have to actually get to what I was going to say in another post.

Friday, August 28, 2009

Golconda and Delhi

I've been typing up my journal most of the day and have found that it is very long, even for just the four busy days, one spent at Golconda Fort and three in Delhi/Agra. I've doubled my journal up to 17 single-spaced pages. I certainly wouldn't want any of you to ever feel obligated to read it all, so I'm going to do the best I can to copy/paste just enough and not too much. Also, I've posted some pictures on my photobucket account which can be found here http://s2.photobucket.com/albums/y46/deafelephant/India/.

Friday‭ ‬21‭ ‬August‭ ‬2009
Today I finally felt up for a solo adventure beyond the half hour walk around the hotel and not so tethered to the hotel bathroom.‭ ‬Early afternoon,‭ ‬I struck out for Golconda Fort which is southwest of the city and on the highest hill in the area.‭ ‬The fort has lots of interesting history,‭ ‬which I read about in‭ “‬Hyderabad:‭ ‬A Biography‭” ‬but I won't go too much into that. It was initially the place the king of the area lived before he moved into Hyderabad.‬ It was a very safe place where the natives were able to hold out against the Moghals, led by Aurangazeb, for eight months until someone within the fort betrayed them.‭

The ride to the fort was somewhere between‭ ‬30‭ ‬and‭ ‬60‭ ‬minutes and quite bumpy‭; ‬my lower back hurt the next day.‭ ‬While walking up to the ticket counter,‭ ‬a man approached and helped me without asking then walked me past the gate towards the fort entrance.‭ ‬He gave me some of the history and interesting details of the fort,‭ ‬while I was asking‭ “‬What‭?” ‬the whole time.‭ ‬Finally,‭ ‬he said he'd give me a tour for Rs‭ ‬600‭ (‬which is way more than the guidebook said‭) ‬and when I pointed out I have trouble understanding him he said he would speak louder.‭ ‬He then proceeded to speak quite loud at the sign with a map of the interior,‭ ‬pointing out the different things.‭ ‬Then we proceeded to just inside the gate where there was a‭ ‬2‭ ‬meter square area where you could clap and hear the multiple sudden vibration from the specially designed ceiling.‭ ‬There used to be eight gates at the fort and this clapping could be heard at any of them from any of them which was a crucial part of the fort's effectiveness‭ – ‬the ability to instantly alert for intruders.‭ ‬Then he asked again if I wanted the tour and I tried to decline as politely as I could.‭ ‬

I noticed another potential guide walking towards us just as the first guy was walking away and I pretended not to notice him while I continued to walk at a moderate pace away.‭ ‬He finally caught up to me after calling‭ “‬Madam‭!” ‬a few times but not loud enough that it seemed rude that I didn't‭ “‬notice.‭” ‬He then started giving me a tour and led me to this stone weighing‭ ‬500‭ ‬pounds and kept insisting‭ “‬You want to try lifting it‭?” ‬I kept saying‭ “‬Uh no,‭ ‬I know I can't budge it.‭ ‬What's the point‭?” ‬Finally,‭ ‬I gave in and gave it a tug.‭ ‬I actually felt some movement but I could tell the guy got a kick out of seeing a skinny white woman trying to move it.‭ ‬He said that it used to be required to lift it in order to join the army.‭

‬We slowly made out way towards the other end of the lower part of the fort.‭ ‬I kept insisting I only had Rs‭ ‬100‭ (‬I did have‭ ‬500‭ ‬more but it was for emergencies‭) ‬and I didn't really want a tour anyway.‭ ‬I tried to exhibit that I knew the history of the fort and I was unimpressed that it was three whole kilometres to walk the main trail inside of the fort but he wasn't dissuaded.‭ ‬He seemed to think that he could speak perfect English and that I was the one who had trouble understanding and speaking it which was both annoying and humorous to me.‭ ‬I kept trying to mention that I was hearing impaired,‭ ‬hard of hearing,‭ ‬but he simply refused to believe me even when I was totally lost at what words he was trying to use.‭ ‬Yet he stuck to me like a tick and I finally agreed I'd give him the‭ ‬100‭ ‬if he gave me a partial tour which included the Princess's palace.‭

‬He took my picture a few times in different places,‭ ‬showed me where you could flick at taut clothing and hear it amplified,‭ ‬where the room under the king's bedroom which was the guest room had special acoustics so you could hear a whisper from the opposite corner and the king could hear every word said in the room from his room.‭ ‬He also pointed out a shelf-like second floor where the scribes would write the official business down and store the writing‭ ‬-‭ “‬They had to be short‭!” ‬to be able to fit comfortably up there.‭ ‬It was the only time I made a successful comment‭ “‬Oh the library‭!” ‬He of course didn't know I was a librarian but he responded humorously.‭

Finally,‎ ‏we were done with the palace and he mentioned that the path to the top started just ahead,‭ ‬after the entrance to the tunnel leading to Charminar,‭ ‬and I was to come down the other way.‭ ‬I gave him the‭ ‬100‭ ‬and he gave me back my pen‭ (‬he used to write numbers down on his hand so I could understand them‭) ‬but not without acting ripped off and indignant.‭ ‬He had offered to do the whole tour for Rs‭ ‬200‭ ‬but I sternly reminded him I only had‭ ‬100.‭ ‬There was even a whole‭ “‬well,‭ ‬there's an atm,‭ ‬well,‭ ‬you could take me back to the hotel and pay me,‭ ‬well,‭ ‬the driver would certainly have money you could give me‭” ‬but I was just like‭ “‬No.‭” ‬Finally,‭ ‬I struck out for the top without him,‭ ‬fully expecting to be bombarded by yet another hopeful guide.‭

Surprisingly,‭ ‬no one approached me after that to offer me their services.‭ ‬A teenaged girl asked me if her friend could take a picture of me and her.‭ ‬I was confused but deciding there was no harm in it,‭ ‬went along with it.‭ ‬They giggled after taking it and then another friend asked for the same which I again obliged before continuing upwards.‭ ‬Everyone stared at me,‭ ‬even more so than I'd noticed within the city.‭ ‬I wasn't wearing anything provocative,‭ ‬just long pants and loose short-sleeved shirt.‭ ‬I did see two white men who were with guides.‭ ‬One of them was quite out of shape and wore shorts yet for some reason seemed to think I was the one deserving the stares.‭ ‬There were at least half a dozen other instances of people taking my picture.‭ ‬I didn't really mind‭; ‬they did ask and were polite about it.‭ ‬Between the stares and the pictures I did start to internally grumble and wonder if they had come to see me or the fort.

‬I kept snapping pictures as I went up‭ – ‬I had to stop often anyway to rest,‭ ‬drink water,‭ ‬and make sure I didn't overheat.‭ ‬The view at the top was spectacular.‭ I had no idea where and what things I was seeing but I had a vague idea of where the center of Hyderabad was.‭ On the way down,‭ ‬I walked behind a little girl who went down every step by herself.‭ ‬She was very cute and I managed to take a candid shot of her and her mother.‭ ‬I saw the building where Ramdas was held‭ (‬that did have walls and doors‭) ‬and the Qutub Shahi Mosque‭ (‬name of the rulers who created and resided in Golconda‭)‬.

When I reached the entrance at the bottom of the hill again,‭ ‬I saw a man who looked familiar and who seemed to recognize me.‭ ‬I was planning on calling the driver from my cellphone but then I realized this just might be him.‭ ‬After following him‭ (‬he was going my way anyway‭) ‬and he mentioned that would bring the car around,‭ ‬I figured out that it was the driver.‭ ‬Indians don't exactly all look alike,‭ ‬but there's so many of them they tend to run together in my mind.‭ ‬He asked where I wanted to go next and I wearily said‭ “‬Back to the hotel.‭” ‬I was relieved to make it back and just be able to sit and rest with no one staring at me.

Saturday‭ ‬22‭ ‬August‭ ‬2009
Colin came home later than usual Friday night.‭ ‬We were planning on taking a‭ ‬5‭ ‬am flight to Delhi with Prashant.‭ ‬However,‭ ‬we ran into a lot of hurdles,‭ ‬which I don't want to recount here. There were times when both of us,‭ ‬already tired from very little sleep during the night,‭ ‬almost decided to call the whole thing off.‭ But we slept uncomfortably on the two hour flight and landed in Delhi with no further mishaps.‭ ‬Saturday we drove around seeing the highlights of the city with Prashant narrating.‭ ‬I caught a glimpse of a monkey sitting on top of the fence on the way into the city.‭ ‬There was also a parade of statues depicting Mahatma Gandhi and some of his prominent followers walking in a line.

The first stop was near the President's Estate and Secretariat buildings.‭ ‬It was hot and everything was blocked off so we didn't linger long and just took some pictures in front of the gate.‭ ‬Clearly visible was the India Gate with Rajpath,‭ ‬which reminds me of DC's Mall,‭ ‬in between.‭ ‬We drove over to India Gate and had a longer time standing around it and taking pictures.‭ ‬The gate is a tribute to the Indian soldiers who died in World War I.‭ ‬Next,‭ ‬we stopped at‭ ‬Humayun's Tomb.‭ ‬The tombs are strange here‭ – ‬there's a wall surrounding gardens and waterways that are symmetrical‭ ‬and in the center is a big structure which is open-air and contains the tombs.‭ ‬I really didn't like figuring out that a dark slab hanging from one of the archways was a huge bee's nest.‭ ‬Colin took pictures of it and said he could hear the faint humming from way down‭ (‬thankfully‭) ‬to where we stood.

Prashant had a relative who owned a clothing shop so we visited it.‭ “‬Visiting‭” ‬is a much more appropriate word for what one does when they go to a higher end shop or bazaar in India than most shops in the U.S.‭ ‬They always greet you,‭ ‬show you around,‭ ‬and incessantly suggest what you should buy.‭ ‬They will ask if you want a drink for free‭ (‬with the expectation that you will be spending a lot anyway‭) ‬and will bring you tea or coffee.‭ ‬Needless to say,‭ ‬this can be really stressful especially if you're not that into shopping for clothes,‭ ‬which neither of us are.‭ ‬They tried to find something for Colin but not for long before they asked me what pretty things I wanted.‭ ‬As for fabric and colors,‭ ‬I've always known what I like and don't like so it didn't take long to pick out a red and blue fabric with gold patterned border.‭ ‬When asking how much a shirt would be,‭ ‬Prashant decided that it was ridiculously priced and then there was a long discussion between him and the shop owner while Colin and I sat there nervously drinking our coffee.‭ ‬The price remained and Prashant was still skeptical but he and Colin both agreed I had picked out something that was very nice for me so in the end we ordered the shirt which was promised to be at the hotel that night.


We hadn't had breakfast,‭ ‬so Prashant took us to lunch in Connaught Place,‭ ‬which is the central hub of the city before we made our last tourist stop of the day at Sadfarjang's Tomb.‭ ‬Prashant voted to stay in the air conditioned car while we went into the nearly isolated tombs.‭ ‬It wasn't as big and impressive as Humayun's but it was still nice and had been modeled after Humayun's with the same Mughal garden layout.‭

The hotel was more extravagant than we'd expected. I really liked the shower which was roomy and the water drizzled down from the center.‭ ‬We slept like logs for about three hours before the person with the shirt rang our bell.‭ ‬I tried it on‭ – ‬it was very hard to get over my head and shoulders because it wasn't roomy nor did it stretch at all.‭ ‬It looked very nice but I determined I wouldn't be able to wear it for long periods of time because arm movement was quite restricted.‭

We went downstairs for dinner at a restaurant called‭ ‬24/7.‭ ‬I had lasagna which actually came with real beef.‭ ‬It tasted different but the fact that there was any was astounding.‭ ‬We also shared a glass of wine which we hadn't had in India yet and it was a pretty good merlot.‭ ‬Then‭ ‬we went back up to the room,‭ ‬showered,‭ ‬and fell into bed.‭

Sunday‭ ‬23‭ ‬August‭ ‬2009
We were so tired and weren't looking forward to the long bus ride to Agra when we woke up.‭ ‬Again,‭ ‬we went through the same process of wondering if it was worth it.‭ ‬And yes,‭ ‬it turned out just like Saturday had‭; ‬the trip to Agra was worth it.‭ ‬In the hotel lobby we were given our breakfast boxes and then introduced to a fellow traveler,‭ ‬Almira.‭ ‬She was from NYC and it was so nice to be able to have a real conversation with someone without straining to understand and be understood but on the other hand,‭ ‬I'm not a morning person so it was a struggle to keep up with the peppy Almira.‭ She was in India doing research for a book and had spent the past week riding in ambulances in Mumbai.‭ ‬She would be going to Hyd Monday but we didn't see any chance that she'd have time to meet up with me or both of us while she was there.

The bus was really a van with‭ ‬11‭ ‬seats.‭ ‬We were the first ones on,‭ ‬along with an elderly white man from our hotel who turned out to be Bolivian.‭ ‬We picked up other tourist‭ (‬all white‭) ‬from various high-end hotels‭ – ‬one more man and four other women.‭ ‬The third man who was Israeli named Rudy.‭ ‬The other tourists were characters and created continuous exasperating amusement for Colin and me‭ (‬you know the type -‭ ‬tourists who think they are better than anyone else‭)‬.

On the six-hour bus ride to Agra,‭ ‬we stopped at the Jaigurudey Temple.‭ ‬It wasn't immediately clear what it was and I admit to wondering if it was the Taj Mahal‭ (‬it was white and had domes‭!)‬,‭ ‬but realized it couldn't be since it was right next to the road‭ (‬I had read there was a perimeter around the Taj Mahal where no motorized vehicles were allowed‭) ‬and didn't strike me as overly big.‭ ‬We didn't go inside,‭ ‬only stopped to take pictures from the side of the road.

When we finally reached Agra,‭ ‬we picked up our tour guide before reaching the Taj Mahal.‭ ‬I'm not sure what I can say about it‭ – ‬the best writers in the world have tried and failed,‭ ‬so who am I kidding‭? ‬It was big.‭ ‬It was white.‭ ‬It was hot.‭ ‬It was fairly crowded.‭ ‬I did like the idea that the entrance was known as‭ “‬the lady's burqa‭” ‬since the Taj Mahal is the mausoleum of a queen.‭ ‬An interesting connection‭ – ‬the king which was very in love with his queen had the Taj Mahal built for her when she died.‭ ‬His son was Aurangazeb,‭ ‬who wasn't a very nice guy.‭ ‬He imprisoned his father in the more loved daughter's quarters in Agra Fort,‭ ‬from which he could see Taj Mahal until he died.‭ ‬Aurangazeb was the Mughal who took Golconda Fort.

One of the more unique experiences was that Colin noticed some markings on many of the stones.‭ ‬Though we never found out for sure,‭ ‬we suspect they were the marks people put on them when they moved them to build the Taj Mahal so that it was clear which ones were theirs and how much was owed them‭ (‬similar to cattle branding‭)‬.‭

Throughout Delhi,‭ ‬we'd noticed creatures that look like chipmunks but are distinctly different especially the flat striped bushy tail‭.‭ ‬Their body build is different as are the stripes on their backs.

Lunch was at a hotel. Almira couldn't eat because she was fasting for Ramadan which had started the night before. Her parents are Muslims who immigrated from Turkey. She made up some food to eat after the sun went down on our busride back to Delhi. Next we were taken to a marble place, where they inlay colorful stone patterns into marble. Afterwards we were ushered (herded) into the showcase rooms. The first had these huge elephants and I said to Colin - in jest, mind you "Wanna take a baby elephant home?" He mentioned something else about them and then we were stuck in one of the shopkeepers' snares - "Oh you want elephant! Follow me! Come! Come!" And we get dragged through a series of rooms to one where there are much smaller elephants. I don't remember their price but it was certainly higher than we wanted to spend anyway. The shopkeeper played with the elephants, moving them and making soft trumpeting noises. "No, sorry," we repeated many times. Then we got pushed to other things and almost had to go to the second level where they had textiles but then - oh darn! Look at that, a power out! and we skedaddled away back to the bus as fast as we could. We wondered where the other people were and then finally they came back on the bus, saying they had been waiting for us and thinking we were still inside somewhere. Only one person got something.

Next, we made our way to Agra Fort. It was red and nice - and there were ‬monkeys‭! You could see the ‬Taj Mahal from where the builder viewed it while he was imprisoned in one of his daughter's quarters by his son Aurangazeb. The king had two princesses with different quarters‭ – ‬one marble,‭ ‬one plaster. It was an unmistakable way to show that he liked one more than another. The girl who had bought something from the marble place had it in her backpack which accidentally opened up and dropped the marble on the stone floor. It had been package in bubblewrap and they had promised us that it would be safe. Well, oops - part of it chipped despite the wrapping. On our way back to the bus, we were mobbed by very pushy people trying to sell us souvenirs. Rudy did buy something from one of them and ran onto the bus but the rest of them weren't dissuaded and kept trying to sell him more things even after the bus started moving, sticking their hands through the door. Colin had some fun with them while we walked to the bus. To some game: "Sorry I don't know how to play that game." To the weird wooden snake: "I don't have an enemy I hate that much." but the best was Rudy who yelled "I don't know how to read!" to one of them as we were trying to drive away. After we went back to the marble place so the girl could get her item replaced, we dropped off the guide and headed back to Delhi. The ride back was shorter, less than five hours, and we had a nice dinner with Almira before heading off to bed.

Monday‭ ‬24‭ ‬August‭ ‬2009
If any of you know much about Delhi and are wondering if we made it to the Red Fort,‭ ‬we weren't able to, unfortunately.‭ ‬It was closed for some reason during the time we were there but we did get to see it from the outside while whizzing by in the car.‭ ‬However,‭ ‬I confess that I have already fused the memories of Red Fort and Agra Fort‭ (‬they're both forts and they're both red‭) ‬in my mind so there's nothing I can say about it except that if I ever do go back to Delhi,‭ ‬it will be at the top of my list of places to visit.‭

What we did do today was go shopping.‭ ‬Colin had stomach trouble in the morning so we took our time before heading out. ‬We knew that the shopping areas were not very far from the Lalit Hotel‭ (‬the francophones among you will know that means‭ “‬the bed‭”) ‬so we had planned to walk there.‭ ‬Just outside the hotel gate,‭ ‬a man walked up to us and offered us a ride to the Central Cottage Industry Symposium for a low price.‭ ‬We agreed and I got my first autorickshaw ride.‭ ‬Shopping here made the first shopping experience with Prashant seem easy‭ – ‬we ended up getting a bit more than we would have liked and by the end I was so tired of making decisions but we were mostly satisfied with what we got.‭ ‬I can't really say what we got because that would spoil the surprise of many Christmas presents‭!

Colin and I decided to dump our driver and walk the rest of the day.‎ ‏He insisted that it was dangerous to walk in the city‭ (‬not during the daytime‭) ‬and that people would put poop on our shoes and then demand a ridiculous amount of money to clean it off‭ (‬which didn't happen‭)‬.‭ ‬This was dramatic‭; ‬we asked to be dropped off at a corner which turned out to be further north‭ (‬further from the hotel‭) ‬than he told us it was and he acted‭ ‬...‭ ‬well,‭ ‬I don't know how to describe it but Colin suggested that he seemed‭ “‬ sad that he didn't completely fleece us like the silly tourists we are‭?”‬ But we wouldn't have any of it‭; ‬he had repeatedly said‭ “‬Pay me whatever you like at the end of the trip‭ – ‬100,‭ ‬200,‭ ‬whatever.‭” ‬Colin way overpaid him with‭ ‬200‭ ‬and‭ ‬the driver hadn't even taken us to the hotel and since Colin had used the auto rickshaws in Hyd,‭ ‬he knew the driver had no right to even pretend to be ripped off.‭

After that,‭ ‬people started coming up to us appearing friendly and wanting to help.‭ ‬We quickly learned that they lied to us and gave us the wrong directions to the circle.‭ ‬While we were walking,‭ ‬I kept feeling like we were going the opposite direction and that the Connaught Place circle was behind us.‭ ‬Turned out I was right and we warded off all other attempts to‭ “‬help‭” ‬us.‭ ‬I had really wanted to go to a handmade paper store and we got close then asked a guard where it was.‭ ‬I zeroed in on picking things out quickly while Colin diverted the shopkeepers.‭ ‬When they asked what he wanted he said‭ “‬Oh,‭ ‬no,‭ ‬this is her domain.‭ ‬She knows what she's doing.‭ ‬She's a librarian,‭ ‬after all.‭” ‬I got my journal to put with my Italian one.‭ ‬The Indian one is covered in dry grass and the Italian one is leather and I have no idea if I'll ever use either - I think it's a way to tell myself there are more memories to be made if I ever revisit the countries.‭ ‬I got another one because I really liked the cover but I'll probably use it.‭ ‬The walk back was extremely hot and it turned out that we hadn't had enough water so I was very glad to sit in the cool lobby and drink water until we had to make our way to the airport.

The flight back was late but never listed as "delayed." They switched terminals but right when we were supposed to be boarding they were boarding people for a different flight and the previously assigned gate started boarding for somewhere else too. There were actually a lot of white people on our flight, including a guy that I commented looked like was from Kansas. He was taller than Colin and younger with blonde hair, cargo shorts, and converse sneakers. And he looked lost and more worried than we were. Finally, we got on our plane and made it back to Hyd an hour late. I couldn't sleep on the plane so I finished "Eat, Love, Pray" (which is a great book). We had some trouble finding our driver. There was some stormy weather while we were flying and it was raining on the drive to the hotel. It was good to finally be back and catch up on some sleep.